• say "yes" if you want to say "no"
• smile when you want to cry
• do not relax
• persuade yourself to suffer some more time, instead of understanding "For what purpose I do this?"
• get offended, instead of asking needed things
• do things you don't have to do
• the person is not interesting, but based on any strange reason, you are still in touch with him
• the people around you live in negativity most of the time
• a lot of talk about politics, prices, traffic jam, etc.
• rumor
• much and emotionally talk about how others live
• work an uninteresting, boring job
• fear
• wait for someone (Santa Claus, Messiah etc.) to come and change the life
• criticizes yourself, thinks you are unworthy, inadequate, unsuccessful.